FREE Community Seminar on NC Custody Law by Scott Dunn Law Office Custody Mediation-Could it help you avoid going to court for custody? Work together to come to an agreement that saves you time, money and aggravation. CUSTODY WHERE KIDS COME FIRST CUSTODY WITHOUT HATING WHAT IS CUSTODY MEDIATION? A third party works with both parents to facilitate conversation, help identify issues, and assist in coming to an agreement for custody and visitation that benefits everyone involved, all while avoiding court. This puts the decision in your hands as to the terms and saves you money, time, and aggrevation.